1 week ago hang out with friends for lunch, 1 friend of mine was late, she had informed us that she will be late coz woke up late and need to do her laundry and shower thingy. But heck, this sweet friend was late for almost 2 hours, end of the day the food was getting cold, we ordered the food (as she told us go ahead first without her), we munched bit and keep half portion just for this sweetie.

We were waiting for so long, afraid she will be lost in no where whereby can't find the restaurant. Thus, J used my phone to sms her. ~ USELESS~
After 45 min, M told us , from useless been downgraded to HOPELESS!
J asked M, is there any thing between the line of useless and hopeless?

YEAH! POINTLESS!~~~ Hahahaha...!!^^

Few days ago chat with Bryan, an ex-bf of my friend who i know him for many years ago. He is a nice guy who always rational, gentle and willing to listen and give piece of advise. Although we chat on phone before ages ago, i saw him once in webcam, but in real life we have yet to meet up, not even exchange phone number after he back to malaysia. We only keep in touch via MSN.

Not long ago, we just chat about life and relationship issues, he mentioned : people change, jo, u have to accept it. Well said! Bryan, i truly agreed with tat..

I read a write up from a blogger, he wrote:"things will never always be the same. People change, circumstances change us. Though it's cruel to stay a realist but it's better always to stay self protected, at times.
He introduced a song - "Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough", It says that people change and love isn't enough to keep with that change. Just like in the song lyrics, '.... there's a danger in loving somebody too much ...' and '... there's a reason why people don't stay where they are ... '. People come and go in our life. Some stayed for awhile, some stayed for a long time till now, some just whizzed by. They have moved on and so must we.
At times,that sometimes after a close friendship, they went intimate and when that intimacy fails, they want to be back together to the same friendship when it all began.Honestly, that would be impossible. We are always changing. We change from the everyday experience and what's more, a relationship or a friendship will definitely change a person too. When I hear the question, why can't people wanted go back to the original state after something fails?we pursue life so much, so desperately and get frustrated of the things we didn't get to achieve, till we forgot to take a break. There was so much thing to be done."

We are changing daily without any acknowledge sign, when we realized the changes most of the times we heard from 3rd party who give us the comments. Sometimes it's good to sit for awhile, take a break from it all and to learn loving yourself. Love yourself more before pursuing your dreams.